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Crypto makes it sound like she came off as a sweetheart rather than a slut and there were no red flags or warning signs, which I'm almost certain there were. Just went unnoticed or shrugged off due to anon's inexperience.

Here's a news flash: even sluts know how to say and do the right things, especially if the guy doesn't know any better. I was lucky to learn this lesson while still in high school. For men, especially men of integrity, it's a hard pill to swallow that someone who seems to care about you can do the most unforgivable shit then act like it's nothing.

There are always signs. And sadly it's been true that for a long time women especially will say things that you should never say if you don't mean. Every chick I've been in a relationship with for more than a few weeks (which is in the double digits & mostly during my 20s, and not something I'm proud of) has told me she's loved me. I've only said it to a total of three of them, because I don't say things I don't mean.

And if he didn't beat the shit out of the ( hopefully former)best friend then ghost him too, he is likely to have a similar scenario repeat because it doesn't seem like much was learned from this. In fact I bet this chick could come tell him some sob story and he would take her back in a heartbeat.

There are a lot of straight up bitchass guys out there, unworthy of calling themselves men. Yes there are a lot of horrible broads out there too. But a man's job is to lead and these days I see almost nothing but followers who are stuck in a perpetual state of arrested development. A man takes his bumps, learns something, and applies it to how he can improve himself: first and foremost.