When women talk about men, it's about how a particular man makes them feel, not about his innate qualities.
A man is not good because he is honest, he is good because 'he doesn't lie to me.' The couldn't give a shit if he lies like a rug to everyone else.
A man is not good because he upholds his moral responsibility to his family, he is good because 'he takes care of me.' The couldn't give a shit if he steals from his parents and siblings.
When women talk about men, it's about how a particular man makes them feel, not about his innate qualities.
A man is not good because he is honest, he is good because 'he doesn't lie to me.' The couldn't give a shit if he lies like a rug to everyone else.
A man is not good because he upholds his moral responsibility to his family, he is good because 'he takes care of me.' The couldn't give a shit if he steals from his parents and siblings.
It is always framed in 'me, me, me, me ...'