I trust that God will provide, some days are harder than others though. The job opportunities here are atrocious (mostly nursing and random general labor) so I'll likely have to sell the house (at a loss) and move from the area. We also have 4 children. Very uncertain what I should do next, but kind of excited for what could happen next.
Do not, under any circumstance, sell your house. Get a base level job from those you described and set a solid goal for 6 months or a year to search for a better one.
It may seem bleak at the moment, but i am sure thinking back to your life, even in the last 1 or 2 years, you will see several opportunities you missed. So do not despair, just endure and search for something better.
I have 3 kids, and for the last 3 years i have been through waves of living Hell and mild successes. Now i am where i always wished to be with the job of my life. But trust me, in the meantime i have once considered suicide, which i never did in my life, and for many days i used to feel a horrible weight on my heart.
Do not sell what is yours my distant friend.