Theres a difference between choosing to be a virgin to get closer to God through self discipline and being a single because you are a massive degenerate that even other massive degenerates dont want to deal with. The issue with a lot of MGTOW/incel types isnt that they are virgins, its because they are still *obsessed* with getting sex, but for personality or physically related reasons, cannot get it. I'm pretty sure women can sense desperation and it repels them.