This is true for men but not for women. This is one of the fundamental problems with the feminization of society. Women fail to see the importance of having something worth dying for, so as they take charge, glory is neglected until there nothing for men to live for beyond whatever it takes to get through the day. The women are perfectly happy to dance for each other on TikTok and get pandered to by every institution. So they can't even perceive the total hollowing out of male purpose.