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posted 2 days ago by Jarilo on scored.co (+0 / -0 / +12Score on mirror )
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DresdenFirefighter1 on scored.co
2 days ago 11 points (+0 / -0 / +11Score on mirror ) 1 child
Single motherhood is simply one of the worst things anyone can do to a child.


There is no greater indicator of failure later in life, especially for boys, than being raised by a single mother.
White on scored.co
2 days ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
My mom was a “single mom” I guess you could say, I had two stepparents growing up but I think that was even worse than if she was completely single because they sucked. No elder men in my family wanted to guide me or be in my life other than a July 4 BBQ. So many lessons I had to learn about becoming and being a man I had to learn in the absolutely hardest ways possible.

Usually by experiencing catastrophic failure and then learning how to adjust, figuring it all out on my own. My relationships with other adults, friendships, romantic relationships, and pretty much everything was set up to fail, and did, before I learned on my own. For example in my romantic life I failed because I was always taught any problem is based on the man’s inability to recognize it and solve it, so I stayed with so many relationships for far too long with toxic people thinking it was because of me. Luckily that’s fixed. Also early on in preteen/early teens I was picked on a lot for plenty of different reasons I guess, but mostly I figured for looking and acting weak and being an easy target. It wasn’t until something clicked in my brain 6th grade to join the JV football team - it was rough I got made fun of for even saying I was going to join and then once I did being on a team full of my bullys was not easy. Everyone did whatever they could to make it as hard has possible, even Coach, to get me to quit … but something inside me made me refuse to quit no matter what. Eventually they realized I wasn’t going to quit and the torment at football and in school pretty much went away.

Next year I went to a small private school and I played football and eventually started every game the next few seasons. I never let anyone bully me after that even if it meant punching the biggest dude in the face and getting some punches in my face back. I got respect because of that and if I’m wrong about that at the very least they knew I was not an easy target and even if they could win in a fight against me there would be one and they would get hit, win or lose.

But to be fair I went too far with that mindset and ended up getting beat down by gang of people and almost died… So I had to learn that lesson on my own too.

Yeah plenty of crap I had to learn on my own and probably still learning, and I figure I was lucky because I was resilient and self reflective and able to figure things out. Plenty of people are just fucked I guess.
Serathis on scored.co
2 days ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror )
Yeah the leftie solution to the population crisis is the welfare queen dystopia. Manmade beyond comprehend.
Jarilo on scored.co
2 days ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror ) 1 child
Summary — Toward individualistic reproduction (Larsen, Kennair & Fisher; Politics and the Life Sciences, 24 Apr 2026)

• Main claim: The authors argue that rising gender equality, female economic independence, and effective contraception have produced a new mating regime that reduces pair‑bonding and drives ultralow fertility; increasing pair‑bonding sufficiently is unlikely, so policy should consider enabling “individualistic reproduction” (supporting women who raise children alone) even though this will further marginalize some men.

• Key evidence & mechanisms:
   • Strong cross‑national correlation between gender equality and lower fertility (r ≈ 0.81). Cambridge University Press
   • Historical/evolutionary account: human mating strategies evolved under arranged-marriage and kin-influenced choice; unrestricted female choice in resource‑rich, gender‑equal societies favors short‑term preferences (attractive/high‑status mates) that undermine stable long‑term pairings.
   • Mating Equilibrium Shift and Female Choice Fertility Paradox: female mating agency + economic independence + contraception encourages mating strategies that reduce durable pair‑bonding, producing a Post‑Pair‑Bonding Fertility Trap.
   • Dating apps and modern mating markets amplify women’s selectivity, excluding a growing fraction of men from pair‑bonding.
   • Resulting social effects include increased singlehood, delayed partner formation, unmet reproductive desires (fertility preferences exceed realized fertility), and male marginalization/demotivation.

• Policy implications proposed:
  • Traditional pronatalist measures (cash transfers, restrictions on reproductive freedom) have largely failed; raising pair‑bonding rates may be infeasible.
  • Instead, experiment with policies that make single motherhood a viable, attractive option (substantial economic and social support for solo parenting) to allow women to achieve desired fertility without partners.
 • Acknowledge these policies will likely further reduce men’s mate value and exacerbate marginalization; weigh this against existential demographic risks.
 • Anticipate reproductive technologies (e.g., artificial wombs) could eventually offer greater reproductive equality for men.

• Conclusion: Because restoring widespread pair‑bonding seems unlikely given current mating dynamics, low‑fertility nations should prepare for and test substantial supports for individual reproduction while monitoring social consequences, including increased male marginalization.
NiggerWithAForklift on scored.co
2 days ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
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