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>I'm in my late 20s and have never had a girlfriend. Its over.
I doubt it. Given what you’ve said about yourself and given the advice others have given you, there’s still plenty of opportunity.
I doubt it. Given what you’ve said about yourself and given the advice others have given you, there’s still plenty of opportunity.
Definitely consoom more, and do not in any way shape or form, look after yourself, your mind and your body. It’s over, might as well live life to your fullest because nothing else matters. So just throw away any good moral values, and self respect, and consoom goyslop!
This honestly seems like the attitude of a lot of people. Even ones who are aware.
Sometimes I wonder if posts like this are made by glowies in preparation for some school shooting so they can claim the guy was a right wing extremist and incel.
No. Its much easier to get a gf than you think but challenging to find a good gf.
If I was you then check for Church young adult groups or singles, go to Church(check out different ones), farmers market, certain club/bars, gym, and local stores.
Most challenging part for you will be approach so just get use to asking random girls about whatever is near you such as if at Church then "im new here. have you been here before?" or if at a store then ask an employee "Do you have _?" or "Are these any good?" or if random girl and you like her shirt or something then say "Cool shirt."
After awhile then you will level up to where it becomes natural. Surprisingly just starting the conversation and asking a bit about her then most women will take over and blap which once you learn more about her then get her # if you like her
I know a fat guy for years who is in his 40s who just got married and pretty sure he never had a gf. He just said f it and started talking to random women and found a solid woman at Church
! DO NOT USE ONLINE DATING !
If I was you then check for Church young adult groups or singles, go to Church(check out different ones), farmers market, certain club/bars, gym, and local stores.
Most challenging part for you will be approach so just get use to asking random girls about whatever is near you such as if at Church then "im new here. have you been here before?" or if at a store then ask an employee "Do you have _?" or "Are these any good?" or if random girl and you like her shirt or something then say "Cool shirt."
After awhile then you will level up to where it becomes natural. Surprisingly just starting the conversation and asking a bit about her then most women will take over and blap which once you learn more about her then get her # if you like her
I know a fat guy for years who is in his 40s who just got married and pretty sure he never had a gf. He just said f it and started talking to random women and found a solid woman at Church
! DO NOT USE ONLINE DATING !
do whatever you want. you can just do things in the world, or not. your choice. if you want a girlfriend step 1 don't be fat. you didn't mention so I assumed.
Gimme some specs. What's your height, weight and ethnicity. I would normally say "hit the gym", but that won't help some (like Indians). The gym may not help either, if you're just super ugly, but there are other things you could do
That sounds promising.
1. If you're not in the gym, here's what you do: Call around and ask for an adult weight lifting class at local gyms. Many gyms have included classes, and should be around ~$30 - $45/month. Go however often that class is. Do not flirt with any women in the gym. This is to get you in shape. You should aim for whatever an optimal you looks like.
2. You're close to college-age. Consider auditing a class or two. It doesn't matter if you're going for a degree. This is a decent place to meet women...they often call their degrees "Mrs degrees", and that's very true. Look for Christian groups on campus.
3. If you're Christian, many churches have singles ministries.
4. If you wear glasses, get a pair with black rims (not super thick ones). This will shift focus away from your face.
5. Consider switching companies that you work for. A new environment may be helpful. Women tend to work at ad agencies and other adult daycare places.
6. Avoid dating apps. They will make you sad.
Just a few different ideas. Good luck!
1. If you're not in the gym, here's what you do: Call around and ask for an adult weight lifting class at local gyms. Many gyms have included classes, and should be around ~$30 - $45/month. Go however often that class is. Do not flirt with any women in the gym. This is to get you in shape. You should aim for whatever an optimal you looks like.
2. You're close to college-age. Consider auditing a class or two. It doesn't matter if you're going for a degree. This is a decent place to meet women...they often call their degrees "Mrs degrees", and that's very true. Look for Christian groups on campus.
3. If you're Christian, many churches have singles ministries.
4. If you wear glasses, get a pair with black rims (not super thick ones). This will shift focus away from your face.
5. Consider switching companies that you work for. A new environment may be helpful. Women tend to work at ad agencies and other adult daycare places.
6. Avoid dating apps. They will make you sad.
Just a few different ideas. Good luck!
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meanwhile honestly you're not missing out on a whole lot. have you fucking seen the state of women these days. save yourself some headaches. don't chase any of those retards.