Next to impossible. Even the land whales think they deserve a Chad. And even if you find a good one the laws will always allow her to change her mind at any point in your life time and divorce rape. It's just insane. I've decided to just try and find one to have a kid with out of wedlock. Marriage is not the same as it was in our ancestors times. If my great grandpa could see what they are doing now, I'm pretty sure he would advise me to do the same