You don't. This is the racial crux of white people. Even hitler had suicidal empathy. He killed no jews, he sent them to summer camp, he let one be in charge of the SS, and he let over 100k be in the wehrmacht.
You deal with it by removing jews from existence and getting rid of invaders regardless of what people think of it.
Furthermore, I consider that Israel must be destroyed
Women in particular want to signal to other people that they are a good person™. Once the overton window shifts to the point where being a good person™ doesn't include standing up for violent criminals, they will stop