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posted 10 days ago by Shivananda on scored.co (+0 / -0 / +14Score on mirror )
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Breadpilled on scored.co
10 days ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror ) 1 child
Porn blockers of all stripes are conceptually a farce. There is *always* a way to get around it.

You just have to not use porn. It is that simple.
ColloidalUranium on scored.co
9 days ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror ) 1 child
Every bit helps. Making it less convenient to access might just give you the extra moment you need to come to your senses.
Breadpilled on scored.co
9 days ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
YMMV, but my experience says otherwise.

I found that attempting to use blockers just created a forbidden fruit in my mind. It inflated porn into feeling like it had way more power than it actually does, and tempted the problem solving part of my brain to overcome the obstacle and get the cookie.

Success didn't come until I internalized the mindset of "I don't need to use a blocker, because I don't want to use porn." Paradoxically, not inhibiting your access to it because you treat it as impotent makes it significantly easier to resist. Best to treat it like any other bad habit you're kicking, like goyslop, caffeine, or nicotine.

This is coming from someone who was a hard addict for well over a decade since childhood.
CaptainTrouble on scored.co
10 days ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror ) 1 child
Just don't go to porn?
xxxxxxxxxxxx on scored.co
10 days ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror )
Self control and responsibility? Fuuuuck off, this is 2025.
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