I've actually become psychologically conditioned to be *more* attracted to girls I find slightly less physically appealing nowadays, if they show promising personality cues.
7 or higher: I am *instantly* aware that these girls have probably been run the fuck through, are violently hypergamous, and will be insanely difficult to keep, even if you can attract her initially. The way they carry themselves almost always supports this impression.
6 or below: Significantly higher chance of manageable baggage (lower body count, less jaded, etc,) much less likely to run off on you, more likely to genuinely value you if you treat them well. Plenty of them *are* just as ruined as the hotties, but I speculate that way more of the wifies live here than in the other camp.
I used to work in Hollywood. I've had plenty of "hot girls" and debauchery like you couldn't believe.
I was lucky enough to get to have a family, and absolutely none of what I did compares to what I have now. It is the most fulfilling thing to simply have a wife and family.
7 or higher: I am *instantly* aware that these girls have probably been run the fuck through, are violently hypergamous, and will be insanely difficult to keep, even if you can attract her initially. The way they carry themselves almost always supports this impression.
6 or below: Significantly higher chance of manageable baggage (lower body count, less jaded, etc,) much less likely to run off on you, more likely to genuinely value you if you treat them well. Plenty of them *are* just as ruined as the hotties, but I speculate that way more of the wifies live here than in the other camp.
I was lucky enough to get to have a family, and absolutely none of what I did compares to what I have now. It is the most fulfilling thing to simply have a wife and family.
But maybe that's just me.