I've actually become psychologically conditioned to be *more* attracted to girls I find slightly less physically appealing nowadays, if they show promising personality cues.
7 or higher: I am *instantly* aware that these girls have probably been run the fuck through, are violently hypergamous, and will be insanely difficult to keep, even if you can attract her initially. The way they carry themselves almost always supports this impression.
6 or below: Significantly higher chance of manageable baggage (lower body count, less jaded, etc,) much less likely to run off on you, more likely to genuinely value you if you treat them well. Plenty of them *are* just as ruined as the hotties, but I speculate that way more of the wifies live here than in the other camp.
I used to work in Hollywood. I've had plenty of "hot girls" and debauchery like you couldn't believe.
I was lucky enough to get to have a family, and absolutely none of what I did compares to what I have now. It is the most fulfilling thing to simply have a wife and family.
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You are a man. The world owes you nothing. It is also yours for the taking. Get out there. Work hard. Improve your fitness and your skills. Take calculated risks. I won't tell you success is guaranteed because it's not. Your job as a man is not to succeed, but to fight relentlessness for success (whatever that means to you).
If you can look yourself in the mirror in the morning and honestly say you're fighting as hard as you possibly can to reach your goals, then you should feel proud of that; even if you have not succeeded yet.
The job of a man is to be a good captain. To listen to his crew take their concerns seriously and navigate appropriately utilizing a cultivated skillet from years of hardship. The only thing owed to a man is strife. You can do it brother. I have navigated my waters many many obstacles and despite the moments where I swore death might be a better way to go. I now have 3 children. A 4th on the way. A good home with a stauly at home wife and I can take good care of my widowed mother. You must push against everything learn you limits and know when to lean on another. You can do it.
I promise it.
Hate the world if you must. But never give up on God or a good family. These things will be your lighthouse even as the ship threatens to crash against the rocks.
7 or higher: I am *instantly* aware that these girls have probably been run the fuck through, are violently hypergamous, and will be insanely difficult to keep, even if you can attract her initially. The way they carry themselves almost always supports this impression.
6 or below: Significantly higher chance of manageable baggage (lower body count, less jaded, etc,) much less likely to run off on you, more likely to genuinely value you if you treat them well. Plenty of them *are* just as ruined as the hotties, but I speculate that way more of the wifies live here than in the other camp.
I was lucky enough to get to have a family, and absolutely none of what I did compares to what I have now. It is the most fulfilling thing to simply have a wife and family.
But maybe that's just me.