I’ve got bad news for you fren. If you want to attract, and keep a women for any significant amount of time, you’re going to have to endure normy shit and conversation. It’s not a matter of if, but just how much normy shit you must participate in. With all that said, your best best is to find one who at least relatively active, and likes to do physical, and outdoor things at least onepce a week. I’m just talking things like going for walks, and bike rides outside, and/or hitting up the dog park. This isn’t easy to find today, but it’s possible if you’re patient. Have you put any feelers out with frens? I’m guessing you don’t have a huge social circle.