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This post, combined with your screenname, seems disingenuous. But I'm going to respond honestly & earnestly anyway.

How old are you? This is important because past a certain point, with your admitted nonexistent experience with women, it would be best to focus on other things.

A truly good, beautiful woman is well worth the pursuit. Pussy, such as it generally is these days, is not. I say this as a man who has a great deal of experience with women, 40 years old, who has been celibate the last several years BY CHOICE. Opportunities abound yet I refrain from indulging specifically because I don't want any more frivolous physical encounters, nor the screeching of females I do not care about.

For me, either I find a magnificent Aryan woman to be my bride & bear my children.... or I live a ascetic crusader life until I breathe my last. While I would prefer the former, I am content with the latter.

Based on your post the best course of action is to unfuck yourself first and foremost. Being a "degenerate porn addicted loser piece of shit" is a choice, not some malady that happened upon you without your awareness. Either sort that first, or be a slave to vice.

Going to a park, a local restaurant, or planning a picnic are all good options.

Practice with conversation till that faked confidence becomes real. Laugh off any mistakes you make, and roll with the punches. Good luck. I'll pray for you.

That's just it. You don't *try* to do anything. If it's there, just each other's company is all that is required

Ideally, you have your own hobbies, she has hers. You do things together sometimes, but not all the time.

Shopping, walking the dog, visiting friends and neighbors, tending to the garden, cleaning the house.

That's what has made me easy to live with: I don't need nor demand attention all day. I'm mostly self-sufficient and have tons of stuff to do that doesn't require her attention. Working, fixing shit, cleaning the garage, helping neighbors, etc.

Honestly there are a lot of good movies. Lots of bad ones too but don't let that turn you off from good movies. Lots of genres to pick from and different styles. Movies are an art like anything else.

Cooking or other food related stuff. Cooking, baking, grilling, or full on BBqing but that's not really a girl thing as it takes many hours to bbq.

Walking and hiking or usually tolerable for women. Make it challenging for yourself by adding weight. So maybe make a picnic out of it and you the man carry the drinks, food, napkins, etc. find a nice trail.

With the holidays coming up, try decorating or making decorations from scratch. YouTube some arts and crafts stuff. Go to pumpkin patches, hay rides, corn mazes, apple orchards. Carve pumpkins. Make pumpkin pie.

Learn to make a bomb thanksgiving dinner. Mashed potatoes, turkey, gravy, whatever sides you like. Get into it. It's cheap, it's team work, it's delicious, it's tradition, its family friendly. My wife and I started getting really into it a few years ago when my grans health started to decline and it was clear that we might be enjoying the final years of her Amazing cooking. So we both divided up the food she made and mastered them. My wife makes half, I make the other.

I’ve got bad news for you fren. If you want to attract, and keep a women for any significant amount of time, you’re going to have to endure normy shit and conversation. It’s not a matter of if, but just how much normy shit you must participate in. With all that said, your best best is to find one who at least relatively active, and likes to do physical, and outdoor things at least onepce a week. I’m just talking things like going for walks, and bike rides outside, and/or hitting up the dog park. This isn’t easy to find today, but it’s possible if you’re patient. Have you put any feelers out with frens? I’m guessing you don’t have a huge social circle.

Take up gardening, learn how to dance together, look up a new recipe and try making it with her, go on a nature hike, or just spend time together cuddling in front of a fire. There’s plenty of wholesome things to do that are trad, productive, or both.

If you’re asking how to spend your time with a potential partner then you don’t have any business with being one.

What do you enjoy doing? Do those things. Then you’ll encounter women who enjoycthe same thing, that’s a start.

Finding true union with another starts with creating yourself.

its about spending time together doing things you both enjoy

its not rocket science.

My suggestions would be firstly to be funny. Find out what makes her laugh. Everyone loves a funny person. It's hard to be funny, but it's a skill that is worth every second. If you are funny then you will be good friends with almost anyone you want to.

Next, there's a sort of inherent connection that two people who get along perfectly have. My parents had it, and I have it with all my family members. It's one of the best things in life, to understand someone so well. It's the deepest personal connection.

You can also learn to enjoy gatherings if you'd really want to. I have in recent times after years of introversion and I feel it's brought some more of the light back into my life.

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