I agree with you, but being a healthy weight, and relatively active with a decent eating habits is super important to, not just me, but the future children. Unfortunately, today that already puts a woman today well above average which also means, she’ll likely be taken already, and/or have her value over inflated. If you just go on the factors I listed above, that already knocks out at least 50% of the mating pool for me at least. If someone is already 30 plus pounds overweight, it’s become a serious issue IMHO. They usually have a whole other host of issues too due to their bad health and inactive lifestyle including one, or more diagnoses that they’re taking mind altering drugs for.