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bluewhiteandred on scored.co
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I could give ideas but I think an alternative idea to speak of is to say it's ok to be single and you're not necessarily doing anything wrong (some men get like really depressed to the point of not wanting to live and... it's honestly in my view not worth being that depressed over, anywhere near to that extent)
Statistically working class men have less rates of marrying and staying married, and there are less rates of people in general marrying and staying married. It's a whole lot of problems from lack of places for people to meet to shifting social norms that seem to discourage socialization to imbalances in finances for men compared to previous generations.
you can meet people at in person events, find a local calendar of events for your city
> I just hate people and interacting with them.
Find people that are like you and common things you can talk about (maybe not exactly like you but with similarities some steps removed)
I view this as a socialization problem in general and this is the most helpful thing I found... for me, I have struggled to get along with certain people, but I found the problem is that these people often do not share values or interests with me. When I can find people who are more aligned with values especially, and then interests, it's a comfortable situation, and they don't have to be perfect matches, just within a range of being closer.
Statistically working class men have less rates of marrying and staying married, and there are less rates of people in general marrying and staying married. It's a whole lot of problems from lack of places for people to meet to shifting social norms that seem to discourage socialization to imbalances in finances for men compared to previous generations.
you can meet people at in person events, find a local calendar of events for your city
> I just hate people and interacting with them.
Find people that are like you and common things you can talk about (maybe not exactly like you but with similarities some steps removed)
I view this as a socialization problem in general and this is the most helpful thing I found... for me, I have struggled to get along with certain people, but I found the problem is that these people often do not share values or interests with me. When I can find people who are more aligned with values especially, and then interests, it's a comfortable situation, and they don't have to be perfect matches, just within a range of being closer.