Need advice from the chads of conpro. I work a job, have my own place but cannot get a gf.
Decent girls have never shown interest in me. Only 4/10s. Which means Im like a 5/10 in appearance. Im not physically deformed or too ugly. My main looks problems stem from fixable shit like acne, bad teeth, skinny fat body, etc.
I work a job, have a car, my own place, so im not too far gone. Im in my 20s.
Problem is that on top of being mid looks wise, I am an anti-social autistic motherfucker. No social media presence at all. Dont give a fuck about fashion trends. I just hate people and interacting with them. Only dudes that I interact with irl are those that are as autistic as I am. I literally cannot have a conversation with normies about mundane NPC shit. Talking with women is the worst thing I can possibly imagine.
I just want a warm female body next to me. How do I unfuck myself bros?
First of all, I highly doubt you're autistic, even if a jew doctor told you you were. In the off chance you actually are, it shouldn't deter you from doing whatever it is you want to achieve. Second of all, what I ended up doing to overcome my social struggles, was doing it repeatedly until it clicked. You need to approach people, both men and women and try to converse with them to develop your inherent social skills. It needs to be with people you don't know, so you can read what approach and style of communication clicks and what doesn't by gauging their reaction. I did it myself because I didn't have any friends when I first started but it becomes infinitely easier if you have a buddy you can do this with. You don't need to tell him this, though it helps, just do it while in his presence. I say this because early on, you might find the awkwardness overbearing, stop speaking and the silence will kill the conversation entirely. It will be very difficult to put yourself through it again because of the negative experience. But if you have someone else, they will be able to fill the silence in your place, giving you enough time to process and respond. It sounds very mechanical as I am thinking this through and typing it out but you will get the hang of it after about 10-15 tries. You don't even need to get their numbers and arrange to hang out, go on dates or anything of the sort. Just have a conversation, about anything, even as something as benign as carpet cleaning chemicals like I did at my local Aldi's for the first time.
Lastly, as you get the hang of conversing, you will need to develop a sort of "radar" of what women are worth your time and what women aren't just by looking at them or at most having a short conversation, to save precious time and money. This will obviously depend on your preferences but for me women with tattoos, irregular piercings (anything more than earlobes), provocative clothing, overly long or short hair, irregularly coloured hair, social media presence outside close acquaintances, expensive clothing in typical public setting. And these are things you can likely gauge just by looking at them. Women that exhibit these "qualities" from my experience always have psychological issues and they aren't likely worth your time. They certainly aren't worth mine. I can try and give you an exhaustive list of other "qualities" to look out for while getting to know them if you'd like.
In regards to finding one that is actually worth your time I quite frankly have no clue and cannot help you. I haven't found one myself and to be completely honest you can never know for sure unless she bleeds when you have sex for the first time and you think she's a good person. I personally haven't met a person like this after over 150 first dates and 5 relationships.