Need advice from the chads of conpro. I work a job, have my own place but cannot get a gf.
Decent girls have never shown interest in me. Only 4/10s. Which means Im like a 5/10 in appearance. Im not physically deformed or too ugly. My main looks problems stem from fixable shit like acne, bad teeth, skinny fat body, etc.
I work a job, have a car, my own place, so im not too far gone. Im in my 20s.
Problem is that on top of being mid looks wise, I am an anti-social autistic motherfucker. No social media presence at all. Dont give a fuck about fashion trends. I just hate people and interacting with them. Only dudes that I interact with irl are those that are as autistic as I am. I literally cannot have a conversation with normies about mundane NPC shit. Talking with women is the worst thing I can possibly imagine.
I just want a warm female body next to me. How do I unfuck myself bros?
4s are usually not interested in 5s. Maybe you're better looking than you think and the real problem is your autism.
>fixable shit like acne, bad teeth, skinny fat body, etc.
Fix your fixable shit then. Lift weights (consistently!), eat clean, get some acne medicine, etc.
Are you actually autistic or just a social retard? If the latter, improving your social skills shouldn't be too difficult. Join some classes or a church if that's your kind of thing. Be among people and be patient with them. On the other hand, if you're actually autistic, then you need to be a lot more methodical. Perhaps acting lessons may help. Or some well structured group activity (classes again).
>Dont give a fuck about fashion trends.
You don't need to. Just don't dress like a slob. No baggy clothes, No old, dirty, worn-out stuff either. No unkempt hair, etc. Just look like a human that has enough self-respect to not look like shit.
It took him so long to find somebody because he was just like you and refused to go out of his comfort zone. But then, in his late 30s, he started reading books about psychology and human behavior, made an effort to talk to people (he still sucks at that, because he often ends up giving a talk about something nobody gives a shit about) and he made sure to go out and meet people. Usually at meetups focused on topics that at least somewhat interested him and because such meetups are in a relatively formal and structured environment.
You could try that too. Since you're younger, your chances are not too bad. But don't forget to work out and be clean and presentable too.