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Jarilo on scored.co
2 months ago6 points(+0/-0/+6Score on mirror)1 child
>Decent girls have never shown interest in me. Only 4/10s. Which means Im like a 5/10
4s are usually not interested in 5s. Maybe you're better looking than you think and the real problem is your autism.
>fixable shit like acne, bad teeth, skinny fat body, etc.
Fix your fixable shit then. Lift weights (consistently!), eat clean, get some acne medicine, etc.
Are you actually autistic or just a social retard? If the latter, improving your social skills shouldn't be too difficult. Join some classes or a church if that's your kind of thing. Be among people and be patient with them. On the other hand, if you're actually autistic, then you need to be a lot more methodical. Perhaps acting lessons may help. Or some well structured group activity (classes again).
>Dont give a fuck about fashion trends.
You don't need to. Just don't dress like a slob. No baggy clothes, No old, dirty, worn-out stuff either. No unkempt hair, etc. Just look like a human that has enough self-respect to not look like shit.
I have a friend who is autistic. I am pretty sure he was a virgin until 40. He is now married and has children. He met his wife at a book meetup. Structured environment, focused on a topic, worked well for him.
It took him so long to find somebody because he was just like you and refused to go out of his comfort zone. But then, in his late 30s, he started reading books about psychology and human behavior, made an effort to talk to people (he still sucks at that, because he often ends up giving a talk about something nobody gives a shit about) and he made sure to go out and meet people. Usually at meetups focused on topics that at least somewhat interested him and because such meetups are in a relatively formal and structured environment.
You could try that too. Since you're younger, your chances are not too bad. But don't forget to work out and be clean and presentable too.
Get your teeth fixed first, and foremost, and then take baby steps to start smiling at people(men annd women) and head nodding/just saying hello. That will be a huge step in the right direction for you. Do you have, or even like dogs by any chance?
I understand. I was going to say the dog park is a great place to meet people and bullshit. Going there without a dog would come off weird to many though. You could take a cooking or dancing class eventually. First you just need to get out in the public though. I know this is asking a lot. I totally get it fren.
4s are usually not interested in 5s. Maybe you're better looking than you think and the real problem is your autism.
>fixable shit like acne, bad teeth, skinny fat body, etc.
Fix your fixable shit then. Lift weights (consistently!), eat clean, get some acne medicine, etc.
Are you actually autistic or just a social retard? If the latter, improving your social skills shouldn't be too difficult. Join some classes or a church if that's your kind of thing. Be among people and be patient with them. On the other hand, if you're actually autistic, then you need to be a lot more methodical. Perhaps acting lessons may help. Or some well structured group activity (classes again).
>Dont give a fuck about fashion trends.
You don't need to. Just don't dress like a slob. No baggy clothes, No old, dirty, worn-out stuff either. No unkempt hair, etc. Just look like a human that has enough self-respect to not look like shit.
It took him so long to find somebody because he was just like you and refused to go out of his comfort zone. But then, in his late 30s, he started reading books about psychology and human behavior, made an effort to talk to people (he still sucks at that, because he often ends up giving a talk about something nobody gives a shit about) and he made sure to go out and meet people. Usually at meetups focused on topics that at least somewhat interested him and because such meetups are in a relatively formal and structured environment.
You could try that too. Since you're younger, your chances are not too bad. But don't forget to work out and be clean and presentable too.