I have no idea what his situation is, but I hope he's busy with his wife and posterity.
If you haven't secured your descendants yet, you should already. Most of you are high IQ Whites, regardless of any erroneous beliefs you carry. IQ is genetic; beliefs aren't. Make White kids in a stable home. If all it costs you is divorce rape in 16 years, it was worth it.
The cheat code for women is sword, then flowers. This is how to combine bad boy and simp into what women genuinely want: **A HERO**.
What this means is "be strong(/effective/exceptional/dominant), and use that strength to please her(/make life easier better or safer for her in a visible way)". Go on a hike after a storm and clear the branches for her. Tell her to get dressed up nice and get in the car, and take her someplace nice (don't tell her where).
*A hero slays the dragon to rescue the maiden.* Sword, then flowers. Dominate the situation in order to please her, and you'll be the man of her dreams.
Go get'em, boys.