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Read my previous post for context.

Things didn't work out. I tried to take all your advice in consideration and it turns out she wasn't as honest as I thought. That's alright, I needed to find out if it was worth it and it wasn't. But obviously the principal problem is that I'm not in the condition to look for a serious woman, because I need to not be a sex addict first.

I had to work against myself to push her away when I realized I was wasting my time because I really liked having sex with her, and that shit occupies a lot of space in my head. And sometimes I feel like the only thing I want is more sex. This is obviously not good and it distracts me a lot from important stuff and I just can't seem to stop thinking about that. I feel like I'm broken at this point, and I don't really have the willpower to just push through I think.

Now I want to find a woman just cause I want sex but then it will be the same shit all over again and I don't want that. Any advice? How do I stop thinking about sex?
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AmericanExpansionist on scored.co
12 days ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
Great strategy here: You're horny, go find a woman to have casual sex with, but then keep having casual sex with her. Then as you keep having casual sex with her have her come to stay with you, then before you know it you have a few versions of you and her running around whilst you both continue to have casual sex. Maybe you two can do other things when you're bored of casual sex, maybe do stuff to make her happy for fun, see how she reacts. Buy flowers, get a new car you share with her, take her and the kids on trips, etc.

I don't know if that last girl was right for you or not, but I worry that she was and you manipulated yourself into dumping her.

Here's a few tips:

If you think "I want" then that is a genuine thought of your innermost desires.

If you think "I have to" then that is often a condition get what you want, "If I want X then I have to do Y."

If you think "I should" then that should raise your alarms that you're manipulating yourself, it's possible you're making some arbitrary social doctrines that are not in line with natural law make your decisions for you.

Another thing, the best advice I got when deciding to marry my wife was this, "Instead of asking 'Is this right? Is this right?' Start asking 'does this work? Is this nice? Stable? Do I want this?' Asking is 'is this right?' is a completely unproductive question due to how relative it is."

Best of luck.


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