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I've found that male sexual energy is one of the best motivators, second only to hatred imo. You need to try to find a productive outlet for it. You can also look up stuff on how to generally mitigate a dopamine addiction, which is what you have.

I'm assuming that it's easy for you to get laid, so there isn't a lot of investment required for the dopamine, which just magnifies the addiction. Cold turkey is going to be the fastest way to correct the imbalance, but you can do other things like weaning or getting it from some other source like nicotine patches for smokers. Video games is probably honestly the best bet since most other things that would be able to compete with what you got going on right now are going to be unhealthy, not that video games aren't, they just won't ruin your life as fast as gambling or drugs.

On the bright side, our brains respond differently to sex than women's brains do. Your brain likely isn't physically remapped to have replaced the natural desire for long-term monogamous relationships with short-term ones which is basically irreversible.

I'd start investing in what you want--a healthy relationship. Which means you need to invest in yourself. You should figure out what fucked up shit you have going on, because just like how you don't want a fucked up woman, no serious woman is going to want a fucked up man. I'd start with figuring out what fucked up attachment style you have since you obviously have one (most do these days). Then you work on that, and the new perspective will almost certainly lead you to realize other problems that you were blind to and it's like a domino effect if you stay intentional about it. Stop watching porn if you are, you probably objectify women which is only unfixable if you're an actual psychopath with no capacity for empathy.

You also need to understand that you're almost certainly going to fuck up and you need to be able to forgive yourself for that along the way without saying fuck it, or letting it get to the point where you've just fallen back into it and you're lying to yourself about trying by "forgiving yourself" every day. It's a tightrope act, good luck.

And stop poisoning the wells like a fucking kike during the black plague. We all have to live in the same society and you're making these retarded women permanently unwifeable. The girls will probably sleep with someone else, sure, but you don't have to be a part of it.

it's like expecting a jew to stop being a jew because he converts.

you're obviously a hedonist and obviously she's a hedonist too

degenerated, addicted, and forever tainted by sin

you can't fix her and neither she can fix you

and degenerates and junkies (that assuming its only sex you're addicted to) make for pisspoor parents...

I spent two weeks rebuilding tractor engine. Didn't think about sex at all. Got it running too

You are not yourself but a slave to desire. Not rocket science. Be a man and confront the real problem: to free yourself. You can’t do this when you’re always surrendering to external things. I have a feeling you know what to do, but unfortunately, the goblins have weakened humanity, hundreds of years of generational programming, is hard to break. It is achievable.

1) How old are you?

2) the best way is to focus on your own development.

3) I don’t think using dating apps to find women is a good strategy.

Conpro going to hate on me for this but mgtow is a good place for these postsz

How confined is your living space and how much time do you spend in confined spaces? Have you ever camped in your life?

Don’t feel bad fren. We’re all “broken” in some way. You’re doing your best, or at least attempting to, and seem to be taking the right path with the information you have now gathered, and have at your disposal. Don’t beat yourself up too much. It’s rough out there, and it’s totally normal for mOOdern females to lie, and shit test you at every turn from my, admittedly, small pool of first hand experience, and from discussing it with local frens from ages ranging 25-50. I wish I could give you some advice, other than dont ruminate on it, and don’t let it interfere too much with your DTD operations. Easier said than done, I know.

> and it turns out she wasn't as honest as I thought. That's alright, I needed to find out if it was worth it and it wasn't.

What actually happened? Did she lie about her body count? Or were there other problems?

turn to Christ. find a Orthodox parish and talk to a confessor, you can usually ask for an informal, non-mystery heart-to-heart.

You could go try a few rounds of ssris, that might kill your libido and make your dick stop working for a bit

You have parasites that are telling you to spread them through sex. You are not a sex addict. You just have parasitic worms flooding you with chemicals. Take a course of ivermectin, over three days during the full moon (parasites operate on a lunar cycle, I don't know why), and follow up again on the next full moon.

I am a celibate sex addict. The few times a year that I start actively pursuing a wife I am overcome with lust 24/7. It's all I can think about when a woman becomes a priority.

If you want to not be tormented by temptation, the key is to *not* pursue women. Avoid them entirely. Look away from them. Don't listen to a woman's voice. Don't let yourself think about them. Don't crank it. Don't fantasize. Don't watch media containing them. You have to forget that they exist entirely.

This was sustainable for a few years but now I really want kids so I'm back to being perverted until the Lord sends me a wife, God willing.

Great strategy here: You're horny, go find a woman to have casual sex with, but then keep having casual sex with her. Then as you keep having casual sex with her have her come to stay with you, then before you know it you have a few versions of you and her running around whilst you both continue to have casual sex. Maybe you two can do other things when you're bored of casual sex, maybe do stuff to make her happy for fun, see how she reacts. Buy flowers, get a new car you share with her, take her and the kids on trips, etc.

I don't know if that last girl was right for you or not, but I worry that she was and you manipulated yourself into dumping her.

Here's a few tips:

If you think "I want" then that is a genuine thought of your innermost desires.

If you think "I have to" then that is often a condition get what you want, "If I want X then I have to do Y."

If you think "I should" then that should raise your alarms that you're manipulating yourself, it's possible you're making some arbitrary social doctrines that are not in line with natural law make your decisions for you.

Another thing, the best advice I got when deciding to marry my wife was this, "Instead of asking 'Is this right? Is this right?' Start asking 'does this work? Is this nice? Stable? Do I want this?' Asking is 'is this right?' is a completely unproductive question due to how relative it is."

Best of luck.

Prayer and doing the stations of the Cross on Fridays, at least that's what helped me overcome pornography. Read Augustine, he was pretty degenerate and had lots of problems with lust after his conversion. Different century, same problems.

Also, stop using condoms. Sex by itself is pointless when decoupled from its purpose to make children. If people would stop using unnatural contraceptives, they'd see how "risky" sex really is, with the "danger" of a pregnancy. Once the contraceptive mindset is gone then, the long-term prospects of the partner suddenly start to matter a lot.

Sidenote, the amount of white nationalists who harp online about the death of Europe, but then only end up with 1 - 2 children themselves will never fail to surprise me.

Dude! You need to start wanking off.