If your advice is to stay off it, save it, no shit bub.
I get a decent amount of matches but I keep having a problem where I get maybe 5 messages into a conversation and the woman ghosts.
I start off asking how things are going then try to start conversation based on her bio. This seems to go nowhere.
What am I doing wrong? Am I supposed to call them cute immediately and begin the conversation with that?
Try to have a solid bio, maybe have a girl read that too; do your best not to come off as a weirdo or a pussy.
Conversations:
This is where men mess up. Act as if you've already got the girl, because you basically have if she matched with you. This means don't try to seduce or have bullshit small talk trying to get her to like you.
Make sense? Probably not. Let me make it more clear for you. Here's what your chats should look like more or less:
>Hello ,(name)! How's the (dating app name) life treating you?
*girl responds*
>It's definitely interesting! So, what are you looking for right now? Boyfriend, something casual, friends...?
*girl responds*
> Awesome! It sounds like we're on the same page. Coffee date sometime?
*girl responds*
>Perfect! We can text to set up a day. What's a good number?
Obviously put it in your own words, but you see how simple that is? Your goal is to get a date when you're texting, save the seduction for when you're on the date, and even then, just act like you've already got her and you're just enjoying the journey.