If your advice is to stay off it, save it, no shit bub.
I get a decent amount of matches but I keep having a problem where I get maybe 5 messages into a conversation and the woman ghosts.
I start off asking how things are going then try to start conversation based on her bio. This seems to go nowhere.
What am I doing wrong? Am I supposed to call them cute immediately and begin the conversation with that?
Most women are pretty retarded when it comes to conversations. They’ll *say* they like when a guy asks about them but surprise surprise they actually don’t.
I found that after initial pleasantries, you can frankly just start talking about yourself as a leading topic. Like, “I’m super stoked to go to this concert in a week” or “I’m getting a chance to get this project done I’ve been wanting to do”. And you can tack on a simple question back to her at the end like, do you like going to shows or what’s on your project list?
What I’m getting at is you need to lead the conversation.