It goes further than that. Marriage is sex, and sex is conquest. The only way out is to find a woman as young as possible (18 preferred, unless you're a minor yourself then you can go to whatever is reasonable), woo her, ensure for a fact that she is a virgin and that she accepts your authority, then go in for the kill. Now all you have to do is keep her in line, which is much better and easier than navigating the current hellscape.