TBF, I don’t think most guys, at least the ones I speak to regularly, are looking for a “hot” woman, just someone who is less than 20lbs overweight, feminine, and pleasant to be around more times than not. Unfortunately, this puts her way above average in todays world, so most an erase men don’t have as much of a chance as they should with them.
Besides, a hot woman is not a perfect woman. And, for every hot woman you see, there is a man sick of her shit.