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BlackPillBot on scored.co
3 months ago2 points(+0/-0/+2Score on mirror)1 child
Do you leave the house? If you feel like you actively have to look for women, that’s the wrong approach and super needy. I just talk to them when I see them. If they engage back, I just talk to them about whatever as if I’m talking to another dude. I just had a great convo with one at my local drugstore right before Mother’s Day when I grabbed a card. She was definitely receptive, and at least polite. I made her laugh and smile a few times. It’s not that difficult. I might have even been able to get her contact info to move on, but I’m dealing with some other bullshit right now, and don’t feel like doing the whole early dating bullshit at the moment. It’s more work than I’m willing, and able to put it at the moment. Hoping to have everything back to normal and more stable before the summer is over.
3 months ago1 point(+0/-0/+1Score on mirror)2 children
You just need to not be a fucking demon. Even if you’re not all that conventionally handsome, wear somewhat stylish clothes that fit and figure out what hair and facial hair works for you.
You can’t change your face, but you can present it and yourself better. Being charming does the rest, and that is absolutely something you can change, develop, and get better at. I’m not Chad (yet), but I’ve recently changed up my style and appearance as I described above, dropped weight (still not quite at my goal), and now I have a 100% success rate of talking to girls and getting them interested. It’s all just been a game for me, though, since I’m married anyway, but I wanted to see if I could do it.
This is the way to look at it. Every interaction doesn’t have to be about getting laid. Just not coming off as creepy and making them smile or laugh just once is a win nowadays.
You can’t change your face, but you can present it and yourself better. Being charming does the rest, and that is absolutely something you can change, develop, and get better at. I’m not Chad (yet), but I’ve recently changed up my style and appearance as I described above, dropped weight (still not quite at my goal), and now I have a 100% success rate of talking to girls and getting them interested. It’s all just been a game for me, though, since I’m married anyway, but I wanted to see if I could do it.