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2 months ago5 points(+0/-0/+5Score on mirror)1 child
> Why do you think I am this way?
The media, brainwashing, abuse, difficult to tell.
> Would I be able to change?
Absolutely! There is always a chance for repentance and a changed heart. Seek the Lord, He will help you.
> What would you do in my shoes?
Get married and have a lot of babies. Specifically...
> I don't believe that white people are better than others
... marry a White man. Marry a man of your culture who will love you, protect you, provide for you and your future children. Love them all well, it's a joy and privilege to be able to do so.
Proud of you for reaching out, little sister. I will be praying for you.
1 month ago1 point(+0/-0/+1Score on mirror)1 child
One of my daughters recently asked me, as I was laying on the couch and drifting off from fatigue, "Mama, is it nice being pregnant?" I'll tell you what I told her. "Well, honey, not always. Sometimes it's really hard. Sometimes it hurts. Sometimes it's beautiful, especially feeling the baby move. Sometimes it's wonderful to sit and dream up their names and their futures. Sometimes it's boring and you'll forget you're even pregnant. You'll eventually forget the nausea, the discomfort, the heartburn, the leg cramps, the insomnia. You won't forget holding your baby for the first time, or sitting with your six year old reading a book on the couch, or talking with your preteens about their own hopes and dreams. The juice is always worth the squeeze."
So is it hard, yes. It's physically, emotionally and mentally taxing to be pregnant and birth a lot of babies. After they're here and you're raising them a strange thing happens; the more children you have the easier it gets. You chill out as a mother, the older siblings set good examples for the young ones, they become close friends and enjoy taking care of and playing with each other. But pregnancy and post partum are things we mamas are primarily burdened with.
There are things that you can do to help. Staying fit, lifting weights, eating nutritious food, getting good sleep all help, regardless if you have a nice, boring pregnancy and vaginal delivery or if you have a complicated c section delivery.
You will be a wonderful mother one day. It's not easy but it is definitely worthwhile and helps sanctify us and brings us closer to the Lord. God bless you.
The media, brainwashing, abuse, difficult to tell.
> Would I be able to change?
Absolutely! There is always a chance for repentance and a changed heart. Seek the Lord, He will help you.
> What would you do in my shoes?
Get married and have a lot of babies. Specifically...
> I don't believe that white people are better than others
... marry a White man. Marry a man of your culture who will love you, protect you, provide for you and your future children. Love them all well, it's a joy and privilege to be able to do so.
Proud of you for reaching out, little sister. I will be praying for you.
So is it hard, yes. It's physically, emotionally and mentally taxing to be pregnant and birth a lot of babies. After they're here and you're raising them a strange thing happens; the more children you have the easier it gets. You chill out as a mother, the older siblings set good examples for the young ones, they become close friends and enjoy taking care of and playing with each other. But pregnancy and post partum are things we mamas are primarily burdened with.
There are things that you can do to help. Staying fit, lifting weights, eating nutritious food, getting good sleep all help, regardless if you have a nice, boring pregnancy and vaginal delivery or if you have a complicated c section delivery.