And that's why you fail. Women can smell desperation and it dries them right up. You need an attitude of being superior to her and not at all needing her.
You care too much about getting your foot in the door to get your foot in the door. Stop caring so much, become comfortable by yourself such that you genuinely don't need a gf, and maybe you'll find an opportunity.
This one in particular reeks of desperation. It's like you're trying to push them away.