Not much point in increasing my standards when I already can't get success, especially having as unrealistic of standards such as getting a virgin wife in the modern day when plenty of these sluts start fucking when they're still preteens without consequence, women are natural born liars so it's not like their word is worth anything.
Modern sexual laws are designed specifically to ensure that hard working men are denied the chance to have young love and get a virgin wife.
probably you have maybe other aspirational standards like not tattooed, virgin, not in major debt... (just suggesting as ideas)
it's chaotic out there, I guess a lot of men just need to not blame themselves especially if they are single through no fault of their own
Modern sexual laws are designed specifically to ensure that hard working men are denied the chance to have young love and get a virgin wife.