16 days ago-1 points(+0/-0/-1Score on mirror)1 child
I used to work, the pay was barely enough for food and rent, I'd come home so exhausted I barely had the energy to eat dinner, despite that I'd spend hours trying to fall asleep every night, every moment of my life was filled with the dread of having to repeat the process again over and over for the rest of my life, I had no time to socialize or look for a woman. It was hell and while I was working I was legitimately considering the merits of life in prison as I saw it as a potentially preferable alternative to the way I was currently living, there's no motivation to suffer just to prop up a society that torments me and denies me a life worth living.
Money isn't even a factor in my inability to get a woman, I'd still be poor even if I was working full time and women still wouldn't be attracted to me. I've never even gotten far enough with a woman for her to find out my income status, the only thing that would change is that I would have less time to look and would be more unwilling to spend my extremely limited free time taking part in depressing activities that accomplish nothing but reminding me how lonely I am. I'm not the problem, society is sick and I'm suffering because of it. I'd actually be more willing to work if I could get a woman to start a family with.
There's nothing inherently wrong about your observations and I really do understand them. Maybe not quite like you do, but I do. I am just telling you that having a job/making money is practically a prerequisite to even finding a woman in the first place. How do you strike up a conversation when one of the first questions, inevitably, is "what do you do for work?" Or something along those lines. And when they hear "Nothing", I mean, where do you go from there? Women literally need someone who can provide for a family or they risk their lives. It's just nature. As far as finding time, idk man, what were you doing for work that had you so tied up? I really don't know how the fuck you find and meet good women nowadays honestly, I'm sorry. Fuck dating apps like tinder obviously. All I know is, again, finding and having a stable job (assuming it doesn't absolutely enslave you) or a way to provde, is the only way to even begin to find a woman. That's the way it is, always has been, and always will be. I wish you nothing but the best brother, and I really fucking feel for you man. Just get a job man, please. Things will only get worse if you don't.
*you don't have to make a lot you just have to work. There are women who can be content with simple lives. Some of them will work too.
>There's nothing inherently wrong about your observations and I really do understand them. Maybe not quite like you do, but I do. I am just telling you that having a job/making money is practically a prerequisite to even finding a woman in the first place.
I wasn't having success when I was working, like I said I never even managed to get a date.
>How do you strike up a conversation when one of the first questions, inevitably, is "what do you do for work?" Or something along those lines.
Considering I've never even made it that far with a woman it's yet to become a problem and the extra time I have seems more useful than simply being able to answer one question truthfully when nothing stops me from just lying.
>And when they hear "Nothing", I mean, where do you go from there? Women literally need someone who can provide for a family or they risk their lives. It's just nature
When they hear "I get paid a dollar more than the state minimum wage, have no energy for more than the bare minimum to survive and come home smelling like sweat and spoiled milk" they'd be just as uninterested as me telling them I'm a neet(which I wouldn't) Lying is my only option and I need to used every underhanded method possible to even have the smallest chance.
> As far as finding time, idk man, what were you doing for work that had you so tied up?
Used to be a machinist, I was only working 8 hours a day if that but the constant stress and activity was really hard on me and I've always had horrible sleeping issues(it takes me 3-5 hours of laying in bed to fall asleep even when I go to bed exhausted) and any medication I've taken to help with sleep has never worked particularly great and often lead to unwanted erotic dreams(I'm not a porn addict)
> really don't know how the fuck you find and meet good women nowadays honestly, I'm sorry. Fuck dating apps like tinder obviously
I'm long past the point of looking for a good woman, I'm willing to settle for any worthless slut that's still capable of popping out a few white babies for me to continue my bloodline with, and for that online seems to be the only realistic option, I've tried real life for the past five years or so but I go months at a time without seeing even a single young white woman and when I do it's never in a context that would enable socialization.
> Fuck dating apps like tinder obviously. All I know is, again, finding and having a stable job (assuming it doesn't absolutely enslave you) or a way to provde, is the only way to even begin to find a woman.
Physically locating a woman is the main issue and a "stable job" would barely be enough to survive on, certainly not enough to attract a woman and like I've said before I can't even get far enough for employment to even come up in discussion, I get turned down on the spot before a conversation can even take place. Getting a job would mean burning every bridge I have with regards to receiving assistance and if I needed to get back on it would be a multiyear endeavor, it seems like a huge risk and investment to take just for the hope that if I somehow manage to get a date that the woman will be content with a man working a physically demanding dead end job for barely enough money to survive.
We don't have that with women having freedom and autonomy, they need to be treated as property.
>If not, you need to string a roastie along long enough to pass on your genes.
I rarely even see young white women and I've never managed have a first date, you don't understand how fucked the dating market is for normal men.
Money isn't even a factor in my inability to get a woman, I'd still be poor even if I was working full time and women still wouldn't be attracted to me. I've never even gotten far enough with a woman for her to find out my income status, the only thing that would change is that I would have less time to look and would be more unwilling to spend my extremely limited free time taking part in depressing activities that accomplish nothing but reminding me how lonely I am. I'm not the problem, society is sick and I'm suffering because of it. I'd actually be more willing to work if I could get a woman to start a family with.
*you don't have to make a lot you just have to work. There are women who can be content with simple lives. Some of them will work too.
I wasn't having success when I was working, like I said I never even managed to get a date.
>How do you strike up a conversation when one of the first questions, inevitably, is "what do you do for work?" Or something along those lines.
Considering I've never even made it that far with a woman it's yet to become a problem and the extra time I have seems more useful than simply being able to answer one question truthfully when nothing stops me from just lying.
>And when they hear "Nothing", I mean, where do you go from there? Women literally need someone who can provide for a family or they risk their lives. It's just nature
When they hear "I get paid a dollar more than the state minimum wage, have no energy for more than the bare minimum to survive and come home smelling like sweat and spoiled milk" they'd be just as uninterested as me telling them I'm a neet(which I wouldn't) Lying is my only option and I need to used every underhanded method possible to even have the smallest chance.
> As far as finding time, idk man, what were you doing for work that had you so tied up?
Used to be a machinist, I was only working 8 hours a day if that but the constant stress and activity was really hard on me and I've always had horrible sleeping issues(it takes me 3-5 hours of laying in bed to fall asleep even when I go to bed exhausted) and any medication I've taken to help with sleep has never worked particularly great and often lead to unwanted erotic dreams(I'm not a porn addict)
> really don't know how the fuck you find and meet good women nowadays honestly, I'm sorry. Fuck dating apps like tinder obviously
I'm long past the point of looking for a good woman, I'm willing to settle for any worthless slut that's still capable of popping out a few white babies for me to continue my bloodline with, and for that online seems to be the only realistic option, I've tried real life for the past five years or so but I go months at a time without seeing even a single young white woman and when I do it's never in a context that would enable socialization.
> Fuck dating apps like tinder obviously. All I know is, again, finding and having a stable job (assuming it doesn't absolutely enslave you) or a way to provde, is the only way to even begin to find a woman.
Physically locating a woman is the main issue and a "stable job" would barely be enough to survive on, certainly not enough to attract a woman and like I've said before I can't even get far enough for employment to even come up in discussion, I get turned down on the spot before a conversation can even take place. Getting a job would mean burning every bridge I have with regards to receiving assistance and if I needed to get back on it would be a multiyear endeavor, it seems like a huge risk and investment to take just for the hope that if I somehow manage to get a date that the woman will be content with a man working a physically demanding dead end job for barely enough money to survive.