1 year ago14 points(+0/-0/+14Score on mirror)1 child
Technically, they’re not wrong
https://youtu.be/sCF-uYgqbG0?si=jA_xAZ6UciRF6nP7
With that said, life is about risk/reward, and risk mitigation. It’s ok to take a woman out a couple of times to get a feel for her, and see what blatant red flags are there. A big mistake a lot of men today make, just like the one in the above video, is sleeping with all these nasty things super early on IMHO. I know many of y’all will think I’m crazy, but I’m not having intercourse with a woman before I feel it can be something decent, and long term. For me, thats not until we hit AT LEAST the 2 month mark which would be 16 in person interactions(2 a week) for hopefully four hours, or more each time in order to get to know each other relatively intimately.
1 year ago9 points(+0/-0/+9Score on mirror)1 child
> With that said, life is about risk/reward
Most salient point about why MGTOW is retarded. It's socially equivalent to being a bubble boy. No matter how "successful" you are for actively avoiding life's most fundamental purpose, you will always look like a sniveling dweeb beside the person who gave it an honest shot and failed.
It's like entering a game of poker and choosing to instantly fold at the start of every hand. Never placing a bet, just to stay in the game longer.
when mgtow was actually a thing and big most of them got "unicorns". Most MGTOWs are these guys, the subversion that still exists is just the remainder of doomer blackpill feds who infiltrated and get a paycheque to keep subverting anyone who is culturally lagging and finding the community. When MGTOW was a real thing and not just a meme it was just bros noticing feminism and talking about womens behaviour and finding "unicorns" then disappearing from the community.
1 year ago7 points(+0/-0/+7Score on mirror)3 children
Yikes, just wait until all that emotion turns the other way, which it will inevitably. Hopefully she is more rational than emotional and this wasn't because she is on some type of high from something (not drugs).
Good on you, brother….that is what life’s all about, especially when the equation also includes children, it’s our purpose on this planet. The core reason why so many people are miserable, men and women alike, is because they haven’t ever experienced the reality you are living first hand every day, or they did experience it temporarily and lost it, so they know what they’re missing. Life is hollow if all you do cater to yourself, who cares what you have if you have no one to share it with, and no one other than yourself to please. Besides, our ancestors are begging us to procreate, they’re begging us to join them and keep our blood flowing through the centuries, it’s how we continue to exist long after our life story has ended, living on in our descendants.
Your wife and my wife seems to have a similar outlook. Feels great tbh. It’s a good life when you find the right one. And no, this doesn’t mean she’s cheating on you. She’s a stay at home mom of lots of kids and never without kids and never really leaves the house. Give your woman a trad life and she just loves you like this.
> how a woman approached him and he ran away, because who knows with women know a days. She could ruin his life!
I was like holy shit these people...
https://youtu.be/sCF-uYgqbG0?si=jA_xAZ6UciRF6nP7
With that said, life is about risk/reward, and risk mitigation. It’s ok to take a woman out a couple of times to get a feel for her, and see what blatant red flags are there. A big mistake a lot of men today make, just like the one in the above video, is sleeping with all these nasty things super early on IMHO. I know many of y’all will think I’m crazy, but I’m not having intercourse with a woman before I feel it can be something decent, and long term. For me, thats not until we hit AT LEAST the 2 month mark which would be 16 in person interactions(2 a week) for hopefully four hours, or more each time in order to get to know each other relatively intimately.
Most salient point about why MGTOW is retarded. It's socially equivalent to being a bubble boy. No matter how "successful" you are for actively avoiding life's most fundamental purpose, you will always look like a sniveling dweeb beside the person who gave it an honest shot and failed.
It's like entering a game of poker and choosing to instantly fold at the start of every hand. Never placing a bet, just to stay in the game longer.
https://communities.win/c/MGTOW/p/19AdgSlhW3/well-it-finally-happened-i-snapp/c