Peak kikery
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They make bassinets called cosleepers that are open on one side and attach to your bedframe so you get the benefit of being right next to them without worry. I'm not fat or a drinker but worried about blankets and pillows covering the baby and me not knowing because of sleep deprivation. After about 2-3 months old it's not such a concern. Also if you don't vax and your baby is otherwise strong and healthy they can sleep on their bellies on a semi-firm mattress like you would get in a cosleepers or bassinet. That solves the jolting move they do as newborns which wakes them up and you won't need a swaddle. After I couldn't get my first to sleep on his own, I tried the methods our grandmothers would have used and surprise surprise, he and all the rest "slept like babies". The ABCs of safe sleep are a cover up for vaccine-induced SIDS, in my opinion.