Because of the dire situation we’re currently in today, if she was still a halfway decent human after suffering such a loss, I’d likely give her a chance. The problem is, something like that probably has her all fucked up in the head. I’ve also had this discussion with frens, and they said the only single mothers they’d even think of dating would be one with a single child under 4 so they could become a fixture in the child’s life before it was old enough to look at you like a POS home wrecker. The biggest problem is you will still be forced to deal with the father, and all that drama, and you will always be playing second fiddle to a child in the house that isn’t even yours. Fuck that.
There it is.