a consistent argument (Cope) i hear from white people who marry asian women is that
>They're more traditional bro, untainted by muh feminism
But then, what is tradition? what is a traditional relationship? well it is a set of beliefs and behavior patterns, namely the wife being the homemaker/man being the breadwinner, monogamy, marriage of course, and reproducing and having children. But why is this the case? why were these traditions implemented in the first place? Well because they were necessary for survival, polygamous people tended to die off because of either std's or good old violence.
So overall, why is tradition good? because it is a set of behaviors that ensure the continuation of your blood/family/people and ultimately race.
So why the fuck are you worried about your woman behaving in a way that is beneficial to the continuation of your tribe....if she's not of your tribe? What traditions are you worried about? to what end?
These people are trying to fight for something they don't even understand. A blind performative "conservatism" that conserves nothing.
First, women are statistically normal. There aren't many genetic outliers, compared to men, so the insanity is largely caused by upbringing or subversive ideologies. The kids don't necessarily inherit it. All of my exes brothers were total punks; started smoking weed at 11, drinking at 13, run ins with cops and jail, one of them literally stole the cross out of a church. My kids are nothing like that because I raised them right.
>"don't be a bum"
Yes.
When my ex ditched us, I left my job to take care of the kids and ease the transition. You can always make money but you only get a few years to mold your children: don't waste them. I spent the next five years busting my ass between work and raising them, including homeschooling. Don't let anyone tell you that single parents can't support their families while also homeschooling; you can, so long as you aren't a bum. It also helps immensly if you're already a pillar of your local community because people will help you, even if it's just as a good influence on your kids.
As for the courts, I'm in Canada. If you live with someone for six months they have every right a legally married spouse would. It's fucked.
However, I still got full custody. Part of it was luck, a lot of it was planning. As I said, I quit work to stay with the kids, so there was no alimony to come after, and I was the primary caregiver. I had built up savings while married but had also paid down the exes student debt, which counts against assets up here, so there was no money for her to get. After she left, she pretty much partied her brains out and I kept records of every time she fucked up, including child services being called on her by her best friend (although they were totally useless, of course). Finally, I got all the paperwork together and held it for months until she hit rock bottom, at which point I served her papers. The case was so airtight, and she was so fucked at that point, that she didn't even bother to respond, let alone show up to court.
I got full custody, child support, literally everything I asked for (although the court won't do anything to help with the money she owes me for childcare costs etc, she still technically owes me and can't go after any of my assets until she pays).
It's doable, but a LOT of work and no guarantees.
As for raising them, it's a dream come true. Having kids has been my life goal since the second grade and I appreciate every minute. If you put the work in, you really can turn out mini versions of yourself that know the things you wish you knew at that age; people just don't.
But single parenthood is objectively worse than a two parent household. I know I'm not doing as well as I could be. I can't work and care for them at the same time and had to train them to be independent from an early age. I can only spent focused attention on one at a time. For a long time I had to take them everywhere with me and couldn't, for example, quickly run to the store for milk or take them to different programs at the same time. You can only do your best, which is NOT as good as your best with a partner working with you.
That said, I say go for it. If you can find a sane woman, congratulations. If not, find some dummy with daddy issues and wide child bearing hips to pop you out some White babies. You can't fix em (Lord knows I tried) so you might as well get some use out of em before they go full catlady.