Yup. If more decent whites would shake the shame, and stigma associated with it, they’d be so much better off not marrying, hiding assets, and letting the wife/mother get everything she can while the father works. I’ve only been able to convince one young couple to take this route in the last ten years, and they’re doing great. She even has a nice little side gig under the table. The mother, and both the kids are on Medicaid, and they have a third kid on the way. These are not trashy stupid people either. Their QOL is so much better than 90% of the white families I know right now.