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2 months ago-5 points(+0/-0/-5Score on mirror)4 children
In youth almost ever waking moment is spent working and just trying to survive, there's no room for having an enjoyable life while having to work to pay bills. This will be even worse for us since we won't be able to have wives to take care of the house work and any enjoyable outlets besides consumption have been stripped from us.
2 months ago6 points(+0/-0/+6Score on mirror)2 children
but it is possible. you can work to just survive and find moments in between to simply have fun or enjoy things.
if one wanted to have fun doing something bigger/more expensive... then it's just simply about going through with a choice and a momentary sacrifice of time or money.
making up for what was sacrificed is the being responsible part -- work more, save more, spend less, socialise less, sleep less, etc.
how can housework and not having wives make things harder? adapt to your own circumstances
I cant even get a woman to have kids with, I'll only ever own a home if I'm able to inherit one(and even if I do I don't know if I'd be able to afford the tax on it), and I have no hope of ever having a career. You've "sacrificed" more than most men will ever be able to have.
>but it is possible. you can work to just survive and find moments in between to simply have fun or enjoy things.
Not really, working a full day leaves a man too exhausted to do anything more than eat, shower and maybe get in an hour of passive media consumption before going to sleep and any day off is spent getting caught up on chores as well as preparing for the next week, there really is no time.
>if one wanted to have fun doing something bigger/more expensive... then it's just simply about going through with a choice and a momentary sacrifice of time or money.
Normal working class men will never have the time or money to sacrifice on much of anything, and above all it's a break from work and a woman to breed that we crave above all else, both things we'll never get to have.
>making up for what was sacrificed is the being responsible part -- work more, save more, spend less, socialise less, sleep less, etc.
Working more isn't a choice, we work however much or little we're called in for, chances to save money are few and far between and are relatively insubstantial, spending is almost entirely on just being able to survive, we have no means of socializing in the first place, and sleep isn't something we get a choice in either. I typically take hours to fall asleep and wake up poorly rested.
>how can housework and not having wives make things harder? adapt to your own circumstances
"how can more things that need done and nobody to help make things harder?" are you actually retarded?
2 months ago1 point(+0/-0/+1Score on mirror)1 child
> Not really, working a full day leaves a man too exhausted to do anything more than eat, shower and maybe get in an hour of passive media consumption before going to sleep and any day off is spent getting caught up on chores as well as preparing for the next week, there really is no time.
in your mind, what are you comparing this statement to that you feel you have no time to do anything? this is a matter of time management
i can do the same as you. also i can go out and enjoy nature for a few hours every day if i wanted to. or learn something new. or catch up with friends and family. i spend 10-15mins a day on chores before bed so that i can have entire weekends off. i can tell my boss i want to work more or less at any given time.
> Normal working class men will never have the time or money to sacrifice on much of anything, and above all it's a break from work and a woman to breed that we crave above all else, both things we'll never get to have.
working class men who have no one else but themselves (i.e no wife or family) can live and eat very well - if all you're thinking about is just satisfying needs and consumption. again, what are you comparing this to in your mind?
> Working more isn't a choice, we work however much or little we're called in for, chances to save money are few and far between and are relatively insubstantial, spending is almost entirely on just being able to survive, we have no means of socializing in the first place, and sleep isn't something we get a choice in either. I typically take hours to fall asleep and wake up poorly rested.
again what are you thinking that would make an individual drain their income to the point they're struggling to survive? what are you working or what are you doing in your spare time to get poor sleep?
> "how can more things that need done and nobody to help make things harder?" are you actually retarded?
see above. i manage my time with chores so that i'm not bombarded with shit all at once consuming an entire day or more. chores are simply a fact of life -- they must be done. how does that make it hard and unpleasant? you make a mess, you clean up after yourself
people who think they just float through life and at the end get to cash it out on themselves and live well for a final few years, and complain about all the things in life they missed because "they had no choice" --- those people are retarded. 9 times out of 10 when read of people like this it's because they thought they could have it all -- max spending, max lavishness, no compromise, no willingness to make sacrifices but rather bitch about them.
yes life can be a struggle. yes in general things aren't looking good for the collective. but you as an individual can do something about your own circumstances
>in your mind, what are you comparing this statement to that you feel you have no time to do anything? this is a matter of time management
Compared to not having to work a job? No amount of time management can account for full time work.
> also i can go out and enjoy nature for a few hours every day if i wanted to
Can't enjoy nature when I'm dreading another day of work and constantly thinking about the time that's passing with nothing to distract me from it.
>or learn something new.
No time to do anything new.
> catch up with friends and family
Nothing ever happens.
> i spend 10-15mins a day on chores before bed so that i can have entire weekends off
clearly you don't cook much then.
>working class men who have no one else but themselves (i.e no wife or family) can live and eat very well
Just being able to live alone is a struggle to afford.
>again what are you thinking that would make an individual drain their income to the point they're struggling to survive?
Housing. It's not cheap to live anywhere close to where jobs are and even more expensive to live in a whiter neighborhood.
>what are you working or what are you doing in your spare time to get poor sleep?
Shit minimum wage work and what I do in my spare time doesn't prevent me from getting good sleep, it's always been like that for me but being stressed about a life of labor certainly doesn't help my ability to fall asleep.
>yes life can be a struggle. yes in general things aren't looking good for the collective. but you as an individual can do something about your own circumstances
More individualism cope, disgusting. Individuals have no power to do anything, we're slaves to circumstance.
2 months ago1 point(+0/-0/+1Score on mirror)1 child
Stranger, take this advice: you are way too in your own head.
Yes, things suck but I promise you that in the past people with way less and who has it way worse managed to find a woman, love, start a family with a much better attitude.
If you think negatively like this, this is all you're ever going to get.
Change your attitude, change your thinking, and change your actions, and change in your life will follow.
Nowhere to live cheaply while being able to get a job that pays enough to live in that location. stop blaming the victims of society for struggling to survive.
You’re not 100% wrong, but you’re letting the kikes win with this attitude you’re letting them intrude on every aspect of your life. All your post of self defeating even within the things you have control over, and could improve. The fact that I’m saying this, means you’re really deep in the darkness because I’m black pilled as fuck. You make me look like a ray of sunshine.
if one wanted to have fun doing something bigger/more expensive... then it's just simply about going through with a choice and a momentary sacrifice of time or money.
making up for what was sacrificed is the being responsible part -- work more, save more, spend less, socialise less, sleep less, etc.
how can housework and not having wives make things harder? adapt to your own circumstances
I raised them both while working part time by managing expenses and working as much as possible when given the opportunity.
There are millions of ways to live but people get caught up in narrow paths and think they can't turn aside.
I wish my parents were more like you.
Not really, working a full day leaves a man too exhausted to do anything more than eat, shower and maybe get in an hour of passive media consumption before going to sleep and any day off is spent getting caught up on chores as well as preparing for the next week, there really is no time.
>if one wanted to have fun doing something bigger/more expensive... then it's just simply about going through with a choice and a momentary sacrifice of time or money.
Normal working class men will never have the time or money to sacrifice on much of anything, and above all it's a break from work and a woman to breed that we crave above all else, both things we'll never get to have.
>making up for what was sacrificed is the being responsible part -- work more, save more, spend less, socialise less, sleep less, etc.
Working more isn't a choice, we work however much or little we're called in for, chances to save money are few and far between and are relatively insubstantial, spending is almost entirely on just being able to survive, we have no means of socializing in the first place, and sleep isn't something we get a choice in either. I typically take hours to fall asleep and wake up poorly rested.
>how can housework and not having wives make things harder? adapt to your own circumstances
"how can more things that need done and nobody to help make things harder?" are you actually retarded?
in your mind, what are you comparing this statement to that you feel you have no time to do anything? this is a matter of time management
i can do the same as you. also i can go out and enjoy nature for a few hours every day if i wanted to. or learn something new. or catch up with friends and family. i spend 10-15mins a day on chores before bed so that i can have entire weekends off. i can tell my boss i want to work more or less at any given time.
> Normal working class men will never have the time or money to sacrifice on much of anything, and above all it's a break from work and a woman to breed that we crave above all else, both things we'll never get to have.
working class men who have no one else but themselves (i.e no wife or family) can live and eat very well - if all you're thinking about is just satisfying needs and consumption. again, what are you comparing this to in your mind?
> Working more isn't a choice, we work however much or little we're called in for, chances to save money are few and far between and are relatively insubstantial, spending is almost entirely on just being able to survive, we have no means of socializing in the first place, and sleep isn't something we get a choice in either. I typically take hours to fall asleep and wake up poorly rested.
again what are you thinking that would make an individual drain their income to the point they're struggling to survive? what are you working or what are you doing in your spare time to get poor sleep?
> "how can more things that need done and nobody to help make things harder?" are you actually retarded?
see above. i manage my time with chores so that i'm not bombarded with shit all at once consuming an entire day or more. chores are simply a fact of life -- they must be done. how does that make it hard and unpleasant? you make a mess, you clean up after yourself
people who think they just float through life and at the end get to cash it out on themselves and live well for a final few years, and complain about all the things in life they missed because "they had no choice" --- those people are retarded. 9 times out of 10 when read of people like this it's because they thought they could have it all -- max spending, max lavishness, no compromise, no willingness to make sacrifices but rather bitch about them.
yes life can be a struggle. yes in general things aren't looking good for the collective. but you as an individual can do something about your own circumstances
Compared to not having to work a job? No amount of time management can account for full time work.
> also i can go out and enjoy nature for a few hours every day if i wanted to
Can't enjoy nature when I'm dreading another day of work and constantly thinking about the time that's passing with nothing to distract me from it.
>or learn something new.
No time to do anything new.
> catch up with friends and family
Nothing ever happens.
> i spend 10-15mins a day on chores before bed so that i can have entire weekends off
clearly you don't cook much then.
>working class men who have no one else but themselves (i.e no wife or family) can live and eat very well
Just being able to live alone is a struggle to afford.
>again what are you thinking that would make an individual drain their income to the point they're struggling to survive?
Housing. It's not cheap to live anywhere close to where jobs are and even more expensive to live in a whiter neighborhood.
>what are you working or what are you doing in your spare time to get poor sleep?
Shit minimum wage work and what I do in my spare time doesn't prevent me from getting good sleep, it's always been like that for me but being stressed about a life of labor certainly doesn't help my ability to fall asleep.
>yes life can be a struggle. yes in general things aren't looking good for the collective. but you as an individual can do something about your own circumstances
More individualism cope, disgusting. Individuals have no power to do anything, we're slaves to circumstance.
Yes, things suck but I promise you that in the past people with way less and who has it way worse managed to find a woman, love, start a family with a much better attitude.
If you think negatively like this, this is all you're ever going to get.
Change your attitude, change your thinking, and change your actions, and change in your life will follow.