I only argue/discuss micro ground level personal stuff now with people I only just met and/or only consider acquaintances. I don’t let anyone, especially what I call “known entity NPCs” who have already proven they have nothing behind their eyes muddy the weeds in an attempt to lose me in the waters anymore. I don’t hang around these types too often, but I know of a few from family, and friends get togethers, and kids birthday parties.