This is what I meant, you can filter trash out instantly and find hidden gems. I was small talking with a girl who was my co worker at the time and she “slipped up” that she was unvaxxed and that immediately caught my attention and I was able to make friends with her on the spot. She was married, unfortunately for me, but I learned that you can basically dog whistle at anyone to see how they respond. I’ve still never had a gf, this “method” still works for making friends with men though.