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JesusSupporter33 on scored.co
3 months ago16 points(+0/-0/+16Score on mirror)4 children
On the whole the vast majority of women back then were not literal hookers. All you had to do what attract one of the other 50% of the population, deal with whatever quirks she might have and you'd have a companion for life. Did some women cheat? Yes. Were some garbage cooks? Yes. Were some less modest than might be acceptable? Yes. But the power dynamic of the household still lay in the man's hand and adultery was still illegal in many cases. Most of the country that was a lynching.
Now you have to actively *seek* a good woman, which is pretty rare in itself. Upon finding this you then have to woo her over.
3 months ago10 points(+0/-0/+10Score on mirror)1 child
with that attitude you're going to end up in the feminist woodchipper.
stable, productive, knowledgeable men are the prize. know your worth.
and honestly, finding "good women" is not hard. if you're worth it they find you. then, get to know her parents and meet _all_ of her close friends. you don't even have to talk with her all that much. her relationships tell the story and tell the story all of her future relationships, including yours. compare notes on life goals and boom bam start having kids.
Yes of course but this potentially adds the "she doesn't like you" variable onto the already slim chance that you'll even cross paths in a meaningful way.
I'd rather it be the older days where an average woman was *good enough.*
Now you have to actively *seek* a good woman, which is pretty rare in itself. Upon finding this you then have to woo her over.
1: See how a woman acts around her father in comparison to being out of his sight.
2: She does have a healthy father-daughter relationship, right?
stable, productive, knowledgeable men are the prize. know your worth.
and honestly, finding "good women" is not hard. if you're worth it they find you. then, get to know her parents and meet _all_ of her close friends. you don't even have to talk with her all that much. her relationships tell the story and tell the story all of her future relationships, including yours. compare notes on life goals and boom bam start having kids.
I'd rather it be the older days where an average woman was *good enough.*